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INDIVIDUAL THRESHOLD SUPPORT

For you, crossing alone

When your relationship ends. When your parent dies. When diagnosis changes everything. When your old self dissolves and you don't know who you're becoming.

You need:

Witness for your crossing
Depth work (shadow, soma, ritual)
Year-long support or intensive sessions
Your transformation documented

Services:

The Year of Becoming™ (12-month programme)
Intensive Threshold Sessions™ (1-6 focused sessions)
The Book of Becoming™ (your threshold curated into sacred manuscript)

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CORPORATE THRESHOLD SUPPORT

For organisations, crossing together

When you're losing people to "personal reasons." When crisis shatters your culture. When thresholds (death, diagnosis, divorce, identity shifts) are hemorrhaging talent.

You need:

Threshold-aware organisational culture
Managers who can hold employees through crossings
Policies that support (not penalise) life passages
Strategy to retain talent during thresholds

Services:

Threshold Support Audit & Strategy
Programme Implementation
Manager Training
Executive Mentorship
Crisis Response
Retained Advisory

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RELATIONAL THRESHOLD SUPPORT

For relationships, crossing consciously

When your marriage is at crossroads. When you're divorcing and want to do it with integrity.

When co-parenting feels impossible. When your family is shattered by loss. When friendship is transforming.

You need:

Depth work for relationships in threshold
Support for conscious uncoupling (not court warfare)
Co-parenting through high-conflict situations
Family healing after collective trauma
Preparation for marriage threshold

Services:

Couples at Threshold
Conscious Uncoupling Support
Co-Parenting Through Threshold
Family Threshold Navigation
Pre-Marriage Threshold Preparation
Friendship Circle Threshold Holding

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WHAT IS A THRESHOLD?

A THRESHOLD IS A PASSAGE FROM ONE IDENTITY TO ANOTHER.

You can't go back to who you were before.
You can't skip ahead to who you'll become.
You have to cross.

Thresholds happen when:

Death unmakes your world (parent, partner, child, friend)

Diagnosis changes your body and future

Divorce ends who you were as "we"

Job loss shatters your purpose and identity

Spiritual awakening cracks your old worldview

Midlife crisis reveals the life you're not living

Profound disillusionment with everything you believed

Most people cross unconsciously:

Numbing, bypassing, performing, pretending

Rushing to "get over it" or "move on"

Avoiding the void, the grief, the unraveling

You can cross consciously:

With witness, depth, and awareness

With shadow integration (not spiritual bypassing)

With ritual, soma, and meaning-making

With someone who's crossed thresholds themselves

That's what this work offers.

THE THREE STAGES OF CONSCIOUS CROSSING

1. UNRAVELING

2. RECLAMATION (The Liminal)

Everything falls apart.

Your old identity dissolves. Grief, rage, confusion, disorientation. You can't hold the old form anymore. You're being unmade.

This is not failure. This is threshold opening.

2. RECLAMATION (The Liminal)

You're in the void.

Neither who you were nor who you'll become. Retrieving lost parts of self. Experimenting with new forms. Uncertainty and possibility coexist.

This is not being lost. This is the crossing itself.

3. AUTHORSHIP

2. RECLAMATION (The Liminal)

3. AUTHORSHIP

New identity emerges.

Integration. You become who the crossing has made you. Not the same as before-transformed. You author your new life from the depths.

This is not going back to normal. This is becoming.

HOW THIS WORK IS DIFFERENT?

NOT THERAPY

I'm not a therapist. I don't diagnose, treat mental illness, or provide clinical interventions.

I witness threshold crossing. I hold depth work. I support transformation.

Many clients work with both-therapist for clinical support, me for threshold work. They complement each other.

NOT ADVICE

NOT THERAPY

I don't tell you what to do. I'm not a coach giving strategies or solutions.

I ask questions that reveal what you already know. I hold mirror to patterns you can't see. I witness without agenda.

NOT SPIRITUAL BYPASSING

GROUNDED IN LIVED EXPERIENCE

This work includes shadow-rage, grief, shame, darkness. Not "love and light" positivity. Not "everything happens for a reason."

Real transformation includes the shadow. We go there together.

GROUNDED IN LIVED EXPERIENCE

I've been where you are. Divorce. Death. Co-parenting with narcissist. High-conflict litigation. Raising kids through impossible circumstances.

This isn't textbook knowledge. This is embodied wisdom.

IF WE WORK TOGETHER, HERE'S WHAT HAPPENS:

1. APPLICATION

You complete Threshold Support Application (30 to 45 min, thoughtful questions about your crossing).

2. RESPONSE

You receive one of three responses:

Invitation to consultation (if this work seems appropriate)
Request for more information (if I need clarification)
Honest feedback + referrals (if different support would serve you better)

3. CONSULTATION CALL

We explore:

Your threshold (where you are, what you need)
Whether this work fits
Which service
Whether we're good fit to work together

No obligation. This is mutual discernment.

4. DECISION

After consultation:

You decide if you want to work with me
I assess if I can serve you well
If yes from both: Sign agreement, pay deposit, begin

Timeline from application to first session: Typically 3-6 weeks

5. THE WORK BEGINS

CHOOSE A PATH

INDIVIDUAL CROSSING

ORGANISATIONAL CROSSING

Navigating threshold alone?

Death, divorce, diagnosis, identity crisis, spiritual awakening, profound loss?

APPLY FOR INDIVIDUAL SERVICES

ORGANISATIONAL CROSSING

Losing talent to thresholds?

Need threshold-aware culture, manager training, or crisis response?

APPLY FOR CORPORATE SERVICES

RELATIONAL CROSSING

ORGANISATIONAL CROSSING

RELATIONAL CROSSING

Relationship at threshold?

Marriage crisis, divorce, co-parenting breakdown, family trauma, friendship transformation?

APPLY FOR RELATIONAL SERVICES

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The Threshold Methodology™ and all associated frameworks, The Year of Becoming™, The Book of Becoming™, Intensive Threshold Sessions™, Corporate Threshold Support™, and Relational Threshold Support™ are proprietary methods developed by Zukiswa Phoofolo.

Conscious crossing of life's profound passages.

THE RAVEN'S QUILL™

THE RAVEN'S QUILL™

WHEN EVERYTHING YOU KNEW DISSOLVES...

THE THREE TYPES OF THRESHOLD WORK

INDIVIDUAL THRESHOLD SUPPORT

For you, crossing alone

You need:

Services:

CORPORATE THRESHOLD SUPPORT

For organisations, crossing together

You need:

Services:

RELATIONAL THRESHOLD SUPPORT

For relationships, crossing consciously

You need:

Services:

THE THRESHOLD METHODOLOGY™

WHAT IS A THRESHOLD?

A THRESHOLD IS A PASSAGE FROM ONE IDENTITY TO ANOTHER.

THE THREE STAGES OF CONSCIOUS CROSSING

1. UNRAVELING

2. RECLAMATION (The Liminal)

2. RECLAMATION (The Liminal)

2. RECLAMATION (The Liminal)

2. RECLAMATION (The Liminal)

2. RECLAMATION (The Liminal)

3. AUTHORSHIP

2. RECLAMATION (The Liminal)

3. AUTHORSHIP

WHO I AM & WHY THIS WORK

I'm Zukiswa Phoofolo.

GUIDE OF PROFOUND CROSSINGS

HOW THIS WORK IS DIFFERENT?

NOT THERAPY

NOT THERAPY

NOT THERAPY

NOT ADVICE

NOT THERAPY

NOT THERAPY

NOT SPIRITUAL BYPASSING

GROUNDED IN LIVED EXPERIENCE

GROUNDED IN LIVED EXPERIENCE

GROUNDED IN LIVED EXPERIENCE

GROUNDED IN LIVED EXPERIENCE

GROUNDED IN LIVED EXPERIENCE

WHAT TO EXPECT

IF WE WORK TOGETHER, HERE'S WHAT HAPPENS:

1. APPLICATION

2. RESPONSE

3. CONSULTATION CALL

4. DECISION

5. THE WORK BEGINS

READY TO BEGIN?

CHOOSE A PATH

INDIVIDUAL CROSSING

ORGANISATIONAL CROSSING

ORGANISATIONAL CROSSING

ORGANISATIONAL CROSSING

ORGANISATIONAL CROSSING

ORGANISATIONAL CROSSING

RELATIONAL CROSSING

ORGANISATIONAL CROSSING

RELATIONAL CROSSING

NOT SURE WHICH PATH?

Schedule a free 20-minute exploratory call to discern which support serves your crossing.

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